Sunday, June 23, 2013

Life is Good

I am sure you have heard the saying "Life is Good". Who knows you might even own a t-shirt that has this on it?!?! This statement helps spread a little optimism around and makes people feel good about the simple things in life. For me this statement brings me to the "now" and the reality of the present moment and how truly blessed I am with life. Today 5 things reminded me that "Life is Good" for the Savage Girl.


1. Walking and/or riding on country roads always take me back to "Life is Good" moments. Roads like this one help me to clear my mind and figure out my next move. They sometimes give me a moment to whisper to God. This morning I soaked in the beautiful sunshine on this road before my Sunday began. 


2. Worshiping on the Lord's Day is always a top priority for the Savage Girl and this morning I found myself here at the Tompkinsville Church of Christ. Lately I have felt like I needed to reintroduce myself to members of the church since I've been busy lately visiting other churches because of vacation, Mother's Day, Father's Day, a baby shower, this trip or that trip, etc. A few weeks ago another member gave me a visitor's sticker...as a joke of course because of my Sunday morning absence! I normally always find myself there three times a week, but it seems like here lately on Sunday morning I have found myself visiting other congregations. It is great to visit and see how other congregations worship, but it is also great to worship at your home congregation, so this morning "Life is Good" because I got to worship with fellow Christians at Tompkinsville!  


3. I had lunch with my family today and the Savage Mama made these yummy zucchini brownies! This is a great recipe to help use up some of the summer bounty of zucchini from the garden. 
I was in heaven!
 
A Savage Girl + Chocolate = Life is Good! 


4. Blackberries take me back to my childhood! While on the farm today I inspected the blackberry bushes. Seeing these bushes got me excited about the future. In a couple of weeks we should have berries...Life is Good! Stay tuned because the Savage Mama might be having a grand opening to her berry patch business...I feel these bushes are going to produce an overabundant amount of berries that the Savage Family will not know what to do with all the berries except to sell a few. So I'll expect her to hang a shingle on the mail box to saying "Savage Blackberries U Pick" or something of that nature come July 4th.



5. Last by not least...my parents yard is in full bloom...Life is Good! I love summer and getting to walk around their yard. The Savage Mama has over 650 varieties of daylilies. They can be yours if you want to purchase some! LOL. The "Daylily Patch" (as my mama calls her flower garden) is a state inspected nursery in Tennessee. She sells plants from the garden to anyone who can catch her home and she will even ship plants to you if you are unable to make it to Moss. Let me know if you need her contact info so your yard can look like this! This is truly her labor of love and one of her many passions. 

Sunday, June 16, 2013

My Favorite Man

I have one in-particular favorite man in my life currently. Who knows what is in store for the future when it comes to my life and men?!?...Only God knows the plan for certain, but I know there is one very special man who will always be in my life.

This man is the one who has been there from the very beginning of my existence. He is there if I need something whether that is a listening ear or help doing something. He is not shy when it comes to offering advice whether I ask for it or not. Sometimes it is free and the majority of the time just what I need to hear. He might not know how to exactly fix everything, but he is not afraid to roll up his sleeves and try to do his best to learn how. There are sometimes he will admit whatever I've requested is not within his expertise. He would give the shirt off his back literally if I needed it to wear or give it to a friend in need. He is a loving, giving, and supportive man that occasionally likes to pick on and love this Savage Girl. He is the best lawn care service provider I know (he takes care of my yard)...needless to say this Savage Girl is spoiled! My favorite man that I am talking about is my dad! I love you dad!

Here are a few photos I took today when my family came over to my house for lunch.



Today I hosted him, my mom, and sister for a fathers day lunch after church. On the menu was one of his favorite meals...steak, baked potatoes, corn on the cob, grilled veggies, and salad. Everything was topped off with his favorite cookie...oatmeal raisin. For this recipe click here for a healthy version that is dad approved. He didn't even realize they were adapted from what he usually gets, so if you see him out and about don't tell him he ate a healthy cookie please! I have to keep some secrets from him!  Anyways Happy Father's Day from my Savage family to yours.    

Monday, June 3, 2013

Making Whoopie Pies

Tonight while preparing for my upcoming Leadership Academy I was faced with the new idea of "Challenge with Purpose". I am having to read The Leadership Challenge: How To Make Extraordinary Things Happen in Organizations by James Kouzes and Barry Posner to prepare for this upcoming academy. This idea struck a cord with me tonight as I was setting in my back yard reading my book while my neighbors worked in their garden and mowed their yards. They were being productive physically while I was mentally preparing for my ultimate life challenge that some will never achieve...becoming a leader in my community, county, state, and nation. I am not bragging by any means. This is a daunting task that somewhat scares me! Yes, I know that I am currently a leader, but hopefully I can learn how to do it better and with a more focused purpose. Someone saw enough value and potential in me that they selected me to be attend this academy to prepare me for whatever future leadership challenge that I might ever be put up against. I hope this Savage Girl can meet these upcoming challenges and start implementing what I learn into action in my daily life.

Getting back to why "Challenge with Purpose" struck a cord with me. Here are four things that I concluded that we each should do in order to bring "Challenge with Purpose" into our lives:

1. Stop complaining.

I get approached all the time to do something new or try something out. I have people that give me ideas and share possibilities. People are simply trying to "share" things that could happen or that should be happening with the things I am involved in within my job or in the community. It finally clicked with me that these people are simply complaining. Stop complaining people! Put action into your words and start creating a vision, goals, and purpose. Why tell me because I am just one person! It is OK to ask questions and challenge what has been done in the past. I do this every day! But you also have to be willing to actively help deal with those challenges and uncertainties that are happening within your life situation or what is currently going on that you want to fix. I am just one person and I cannot do everything. Volunteer to help us make changes in our community. Volunteer to make that change in your workplace that you always wanted to see happen. Enlist yourself to help out instead of setting on the sidelines waiting for someone else to do it! I cannot do it alone. I need help. The groups I work with can only accomplish so much. Trust me we can find you a place where you will fit in.

2. Begin listening and start.

If you want to ask why something is done a particular way...take a tip from me and begin to listen to the responses you are getting when you ask questions. After listening to the responses you are given analyze the situation, come up with a game plan and put some of those answers into action. If you have ideas help make them goals and put them into action and begin working towards achieving them. You can start your own group if you know there is an area currently being undeserved. Don't wait for someone else to do it! You can help too! Stop the excuses. Start. Find people who have the same interest, same passion, and same drive as you do and enlist them to join your group.

3. Share a whoopie pie occasionally.

Together we all can make a difference. You can have your project and I can have my project. Let's point our arrows in the same direction. Support my team and I will support your team. We are better together than we are separate. A whole whoopie pie is better than a bite of one. When whoopie pie ingredients are perfectly measured out, carefully mixed together, baked to perfection, whipped cream goodness spread in the middle, and served to others usually something sweet happens. Comfort and happiness is shared. If it is an awesome whoopie pie then others want the recipe so they can make it themselves at home. Share your recipe with them and don't leave any ingredients out. Tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Don't sugar coat any of the important details. The more we can share our recipe with others the better our communities, families, and lives can be and together we can begin making a difference.

 
 
4. Find your passion.

We need to turn our challenges into opportunities and purposes. We need to rise to the occasion instead of complaining to others. We all have the power, the force and the drive within us if there is passion and if it is something we really care about. If we want to really resolve something and improve a situation, then there should not be any excuse for what is stopping us. If we keep eating the same kind of pie all the time it will begin to taste dull and old...so change it up and seize the opportunities to try something new for the first time. Find your passion and start sharing it with others. Be on the lookout for people to share pie with, but don't complain! Listen and share. Sharing your pie means that you might find some new ideas yourself and you might also find others who have the same passion you do.     

Get out there and begin making whoopie pies, but do not forget to stop complaining to others, begin listening and start, share a whoopie pie occasionally, and find your passion! Last but not least be open and willing to discover new possibilities but keep in mind you need to "Challenge with Purpose".

Monday, May 27, 2013

Country Living

Today I have been working on projects around my house both inside and outside. While eating lunch I thought I would reflect over this weekend...this extra long weekend would not have been possible without the many men and women that risk their life for our nation and gave the ultimate sacrifice on our behalf. For that I am thankful! Happy Memorial Day! Sometime today while you are enjoying this great weather outside take a little time to reflect on the meaning behind today so as a nation we don't lose touch with the purpose of today.

This weekend marked the unofficial kickoff to SUMMER. Memorial Day weekend brought several of my family members together on the family farm. Members of my family have been living on the family farm for almost 100 years now. It is the current residency of four members of my family...my parents and my cousin Matt and his wife Amanda. The farm is located on the Tennessee Kentucky stateline and it is still a family gathering place for holidays every now and again. My parents house is usually where everyone gathers. It will not be too much longer before we out grow my parents house if we keep adding at the current rate! Number 25 will be added in a few shorts weeks...but here are a few photos from this weekend of a few of those who were able to make it.


 
 

 
One evening several of us decided to take a little stroll on the family farm to see what was happening. I couldn't resist snapping a few photos along the way since country living on the farm isn't something that I get every day now that I'm a city girl in the metropolis of Tompkinsville. Enjoy a few scenic views, because I know I did that evening.

I love this small path since it helps keep the property interconnected.

Barn # 1...The tobacco barn (view 1)
 
The tobacco barn view 2...the barn quilt was painted by yours truly a few years ago for a school project while working on my master's degree. The pattern is called "Log Cabin" and it was selected since my mama has made all the cousins quilts in this pattern. This is the barn I spent many days when I was younger helping in the family tobacco crop & my 4-H sheep projects were raised in this barn.
It is hay season on the family farm so daddy and Matt have been a little busy. 


Barn #2...the Ridge Barn. I love this barn because of its character and charm! When I was a kid it was the "red" barn, but that has long disappeared. Now my aunt Kathy is the proud owner hence why I called it the "Ridge Barn".
 
Somehow sunsets in the country always seem prettier.
 
I am thankful and blessed to have been raised on such a beautiful family farm. I realize that now that I am an adult, but when growing up I did not appreciate the country living. Living on the farm meant that I had a few chores and had to help in the tobacco patch and my mama's daylily patch. I had to get up early and be on the school bus around 6:45 a.m. in order to be at school by 8:00 a.m. Most of my friends lived in town and had the convenience of being near everything, but that wasn't the case for my family. To shop or do anything "big" we had to travel one to two hours depending on if we went to Cookeville or Nashville. I survived without all the hustle and bustle of city life. Life on the farm has its own pace and things seemed to be simpler then and even now today.
 
Thinking about today being Memorial Day and country living & farm life  made me think of this passage from Ecclesiastes 3:1-8: There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing, a time to search and a time to give up, time to keep and a time to throw away,a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.
 
I am glad that my parents decided to build on the family farm and raise my sister and me there. I got to be raised with my Pa Ralph being our closest neighbor. Not many kids can say that! If we ever needed anything he was there in an instant to lend a helping hand or words of advice or encouragement. I never dreamed at the age of 28 that I would be living back so near the family farm (I am less than 10 miles away), but somehow God's plan brought me back when I was 24. I don't know what is in store for me in the upcoming years but one thing I know for sure is that I love going back and visiting the family farm and country living every now and again even if it is just for a visit. Without these special veterans in my life I would not have been so lucky to be able to experience life on the farm. Thanks Pa Ralph & Pa Virgil!
 
Ralph Craighead

Virgil Savage
 


Sunday, May 26, 2013

It's Strawberry Season!

It's strawberry season on the Tennessee Kentucky stateline! This weekend I helped pick strawberries on the family farm. These photos are from one days pickin'. Needless to say mama and daddy have been busy in the garden harvesting these little berries and preparing them for the freezer...that is if they were not consumed first! Strawberries are full of vitamin C and they also contain vitamin A, folic acid, fiber, and iron. They are low in calories and loaded with nutrition so that makes them great to eat! Strawberries are best eaten almost immediately after they are harvested within the 2 to 3 days. After they are picked you remove their "cap" and then enjoy them!    

Mama's Berry Patch...the strawberries are on the right (5 rows of them) and they are my favorite, but I cannot wait till the blackberries (on the left) come in sometime in July because they are also delicious!



I could not resist trying to consume several strawberry dishes yesterday since I had farm fresh strawberries! This is not a normal occurrence in the Savage household. I did not want those little yummy berries to go to waste especially since I helped pick them.
Breakfast (Bran Cereal & Strawberries with Milk)

Lunch (Fresh garden chicken salad with strawberries, apples, almonds, blue cheese crumbles, craisins & honey mustard dressing)

Afternoon Refresher (Strawberry Tea)

Dessert (Strawberry Shortcake) 

I haven't turned into a strawberry yet, but I'm ready to go back to the berry patch to pick some more because after reviewing these pictures I'm hungry again for some more berries. Can you tell that strawberries are one of the Savage Girl's favorite fruits? What is your favorite?